As an Mass Communication Specialist 2nd Class (SW) [that's Petty Officer 2nd Class, you'll learn we go by rates for our names) for ovrer 5 years of service I can tell you the Navy Seals has an 85% attrition rate. It's no easy picnic, I'll tell you what, find a SEAL recruit motivator who will train you and answer your questions. It's a new program started about 2-3 years ago, I did the story on it, link below.
The Navy is by far the best when it comes to opportunties and brotherhood. You ever been underway for 7 months, that ship becomes your family. Boot camp is a breeze, mine was funny actually and I had the last bit of old school, my RDCs were dinosaurs man. As for officer, don't become one yet until you join the SEALs. Officer selection for SEALs is less than 1%, a friend of mine made that mistake. Join enlisted SEALs first and then put in a STA 21 package or OCS.
It is not difficult to become an officer, it's all what you make of it. The Navy works for you and if you don't use it, then it's not going to help is it.
my contact information: patrick.grieco@eucom.mil
I'd love to help you find information.
As for now, seek out a SEAL mentor in your area. Ask your recruiter for it, make him show it to you. If it helps print out this story and bring it to him, every area has a group. Second, download the SEAL workout online, DO IT TO THE LETTER! This is no joke, SEAL training is the hardest in the world. (direct quote by the way). Remember, 85-90% of candidates don't make it. The ones that do enjoy a very exciting, challenging and high-paying, ;-), career. NSW is receiving large checks these days due to the War on Terror.
http://www.navy.mil/search/display.asp?story_id=27034 (That's a link to just one of the stories I published)