I usually stay out of this argument because there is no way to win it especially if a person's objection to women being in infantry is because women have their period. Seriously of all the things to worry about in combat, that is what you are going to fixate on. How about worrying about the blood gushing out of your buddy's stomach and not the blood coming out of your teammate's vagina.
Here is the reality, more and more of the infantry positions will open up to women for the simple reason that there is no "front line" anymore. The last two wars proved that. Women were in direct combat in Afghanistan and Iraq. The women equipped themselves just as well as the men did. And yes, there are women who died as a result.
The objection that people have for women not being on the front line has less to do with a woman's ability and more to do with incorrect male perceptions.
Take for example, one of the poster's argument that a woman shouldn't be on the front line because she wouldn't want to get dirty. Mmmmmmmm excuse me. I got plenty dirty when I was in the Marine Corps. We were out in the field once for a month and yes, we were dirty but guess what, so were the men. Big freaking deal. So what if we stunk. Get over it. When we were over in Korea during Team Spirit, we lived in a pig farm. Yes, it was gross but who cared. And yes, when I was out in the field, I had my period and sometimes it was a little nasty but like pain, dirt is temporary. We will eventually take a shower.
For the poster who said that women can't march x number of miles with a 45lbs pack on their back. Yes they can. When I was in Okinawa, we went on a 26 miles hump from one side of the island to the next. And yes,until you went numb, it hurt like hell but you knew better than to get on that truck. Unless you were seriously injured, you didn't stop. And to be just a little bit facetious, come on guys. On any given day you can find civilian women carrying a 20lbs baby, a huge diaper bag, groceries, and god knows what else. If women can carry all that, and they can, they can hump a pack that has the 45lbs distrubted over their back.
And for the lovely former Army soldier who thinks all women are skanks. Perhaps, in the Army, but I doubt it even for the Army. You will find people who are less than honorable regardless of the gender or the branch they serve in. When I went to Desert Storm, only one person went AWOL.... and that was a MALE Marine. Should we now condemn all men? Or is it only ok to condemn and discriminate against women because of the actions of one woman, who may or may not have gotten pregnant "on purpose" just to get out of a deployment.
Also, for those who say that women shouldn't serve becuse "boys will be boys" and that they would be raped or sexually harrassed. Well, that isn't a good enough reason for women not to serve in infantry. First of all, men have been raped in wartime also. Civilian women have been raped in wartime. It is a heinous crime but not a good enough reason to keep women out of infantry positions.
And if a woman is getting harrassed, and nothing happens, that is a failure on the part of the leadership. When African-Americans were first integrated into the regular Army, there were a lot of servicemembers who didn't like it but the leadership stood up for them and made it clear that the African-American soldiers were soldiers and should be treated as such. And if the leadership won't do that for women, then it is their failure not the failure of the women.
Lastly, women have risen to every challenge that has been thrown to us. Everytime the military opens a MOS up to us, we suceed in it. Once upon a time, women couldn't fly helicopters in the military. Not only do we fly them now, we fly them in combat conditions and we fly them as well as the men do. Furthermore, women can shoot just as accurately as men do. When I went through recruit training, a woman recruit had the high score and she had had it for quite awhile. Women also do better in the prone and kneeling positions because we are more flexible. Should we ban men from shooting because they don't get into the kneeling position as well???? After all if one can use the argument that women should be excluded from infantry because they are not physically the same as men, shouldn't we be able to use the same excuse for men???
Anyway, this is another reason I don't usually respond to this question. I will just keep typing and typing and typing. And it is obvious of course, where I fall with this argument.
Women should be given the same opportunity as men. If they fail, they fail. If they suceed, they suceed.
Dena